How do you know when it's time to close the chapter/shut the door on a relationship? 

I’m talking about my relationship with this space - an expression of my style online, created 10 years ago to inspire plus size women in a hostile fashion industry. 

I used to love it. 

It used to spend every spare minute on. 

It landed me dream opportunities and features. And through it, I had some of the most important conversations online about race and fashion. 

I always thought I would go into styling plus size women or create my own plus size clothing brand…

But life happens, priorities shift. That, coupled with the fact that I was disillusioned by the reality of the industry - the blog took a  backseat.

Currently, for the first time in a while, I’ve had time to do whatever I want.  I thought I would get right back to creating fashion content, but I didn't. Every time I tried, it just didn’t feel like second nature anymore.

So, I’ve decided to give myself 30 days to make a decision. I’ll still be stylish in my life, but is this mode of creativity online still a part of my identity or is it a dream fulfilled to its capacity? 

I don’t know. I want to see how I feel after these 30 days. 30 days, 30 looks.

Hell, I’ve given other silly relationships much longer than 30 days, so lets f***ing go!